Planning
5 tasks
Strategy, priorities, and project management.
Pick three wedding priorities
List the three elements you care about most, such as venue, photography, or food, so tradeoffs stay consistent during planning.
Set monthly planning checkpoints
Schedule recurring planning reviews so you always know what decisions need to happen next and what can wait.
Assign day-of point people
Choose who handles vendor questions, gift collection, card box security, and personal item transport on the day.
Protect one unplugged evening together
Take a quiet break before the big day to reconnect and reduce decision fatigue.
Hand off your phone and admin tasks
Give one trusted person ownership of logistics calls, texts, and minor fires so you can stay present.
Budget
9 tasks
Money, allocations, and payment tracking.
Set your wedding budget
Choose your total spend ceiling, note any family contributions, and decide what categories matter most before you contact vendors.
Update budget after early deposits
Recalculate remaining funds after venue and major vendor deposits so you do not over-commit later.
Review payment schedule for every vendor
Track due dates, payment methods, and who is responsible for each invoice so no major deposit is missed.
Reforecast your remaining budget
Compare committed spend against the original plan and reduce discretionary extras before the final stretch.
Prepare cash tips and final payment method
Decide what vendors will be tipped, what will be prepaid, and who will physically distribute envelopes on the weekend.
Venue
3 tasks
Ceremony and reception spaces.
Choose your target wedding season
Decide your ideal month, backup month, and preferred day of week to expand venue options and control costs.
Tour ceremony and reception venues
Compare capacity, rain plans, noise limits, curfews, vendor restrictions, and the overall guest flow before requesting proposals.
Book your venue and date
Secure the contract, deposit, and logistics details once you know the venue supports your guest count and style goals.
Guests
7 tasks
Invitations, RSVPs, and seating flow.
Draft your initial guest list
Build a realistic first-pass list with must-invite guests, likely plus-ones, and rough household counts for budget estimates.
Refine your guest list tiers
Separate must-invite guests from nice-to-have guests so you can react quickly if capacity or budget shifts.
Discuss family invite additions
Resolve guest list pressure early so there is time to adjust venue counts, catering, and stationery quantities.
Finalize hotel blocks and travel notes
Confirm cutoff dates, discount codes, and shuttle assumptions before guests begin booking more heavily.
Track RSVPs and follow up on missing responses
Contact guests who have not responded so your final count is accurate before catering and rental deadlines hit.
Stationery
6 tasks
Save the dates, invitations, and signage.
Collect addresses for save the dates
Start building a clean spreadsheet of mailing addresses and preferred names before design work begins.
Design and order save the dates
Match the design to your wedding aesthetic and build in proofing time before ordering and mailing.
Mail your save the dates
Send save the dates now so out-of-town guests can book travel and request time off with enough notice.
Design your invitations
Finalize wording, proofing, enclosures, and RSVP method while aligning the design with your website and signage.
Mail your invitations
Send invitations with enough time for guests to RSVP, book travel, and ask questions before the final count is due.
Catering
2 tasks
Food, beverage, tastings, and rentals.
Confirm your caterer
Review menu flexibility, staffing, beverage service, rental needs, and service timelines before you submit the deposit.
Schedule your tasting
Use the tasting to confirm menu choices, dietary flexibility, presentation style, and service pacing.
Photo & Video
10 tasks
Photo, video, shot lists, and content capture.
Research photographers and videographers
Review portfolios, full galleries, editing style, availability, and delivery timelines before you request pricing.
Book your photographer
Sign the contract, confirm coverage hours, and note any second shooter or engagement session details in writing.
Book your videographer or content creator
Choose the type of coverage you want, from documentary highlight films to vertical social edits and raw footage delivery.
Plan your engagement session
Choose location, outfits, backup weather plans, and photo use cases so the shoot also supports your website and save the date ecosystem.
Draft your family photo list
Build a concise family grouping list with names and one designated wrangler to keep portraits efficient.
Flowers
3 tasks
Florals, installations, and decor blooms.
Hire your florist
Share inspiration, seasonality preferences, must-have arrangements, and install ideas so the proposal reflects your design goals.
Approve your floral mood board
Narrow color palette, bloom types, and installation priorities before the florist begins deeper costing work.
Approve your floral proposal and counts
Lock bouquet counts, ceremony pieces, centerpieces, and delivery details so the florist can place reliable orders.
Music
5 tasks
Ceremony audio, live music, DJ, and playlists.
Book your band or DJ
Decide whether you want live music, a DJ, or a hybrid setup and lock your entertainment before prime dates disappear.
Outline ceremony music moments
Decide what music you want for guest arrival, processional, recessional, and key pauses so vendors can build around it.
Build your must-play and do-not-play lists
Give your DJ or band clear guardrails for key songs, genres, transitions, and guest-facing energy.
Choose first dance and parent dance songs
Confirm your spotlight songs and trim edits if the live band or DJ needs custom timing.
Confirm spotlight song cues
Make sure the entertainment lead knows the exact order for entrances, first dance, parent dances, and final song.
Attire
10 tasks
Wedding fashion, tailoring, and accessories.
Start shopping for wedding attire
Begin dress, suit, tux, and accessory research now because custom orders and alterations take longer than couples expect.
Order wedding dress or main outfit
Place the order with enough buffer for production delays and multiple fittings before the wedding.
Choose wedding party attire
Finalize the look, price range, and ordering timeline for bridesmaids, groomsmen, and anyone else walking in the processional.
Buy wedding shoes and accessories
Select shoes, jewelry, veil, cufflinks, and finishing pieces early so you can wear them to fittings.
Schedule your first fitting
Bring undergarments, shoes, and accessories to the fitting so the tailor can set an accurate hem and silhouette.
Beauty
7 tasks
Hair, makeup, grooming, and wellness.
Create your beauty and wellness plan
Schedule any skincare, hair growth, dental, or treatment timelines that need several months to see results.
Book hair and makeup artists
Secure artists now and clarify the number of services, touch-up plans, and getting-ready location logistics.
Complete your hair and makeup trial
Test the look in daylight, take photos from multiple angles, and note what should change for the wedding day schedule.
Finalize your getting-ready schedule
Set service order, location, lighting needs, and buffer time so photography and glam do not compete for space.
Do final beauty prep appointments
Finish color, cut, brow, facial, or grooming appointments now so your look settles naturally before the wedding.
Transport
5 tasks
Travel, shuttles, valet, and logistics.
Estimate guest travel needs
Identify whether you need hotel blocks, shuttle loops, valet, or clear parking guidance based on guest mix and venue location.
Book transportation vendors
Reserve wedding party transport, guest shuttles, or valet support once your venue access plan is clear.
Confirm shuttle routes and pickup times
Lock travel timing between hotels, ceremony, reception, and after-party locations with realistic loading buffers.
Share parking and transport instructions
Send guests and vendors final directions, parking notes, venue access points, and shuttle schedules.
Confirm transport departures
Check that wedding party transport, guest shuttles, or private drivers are moving according to plan.
Honeymoon
3 tasks
Post-wedding travel and booking details.
Check passport and travel deadlines
Look at passport expiration dates, visa lead times, and blackout periods now if you want to travel soon after the wedding.
Book honeymoon flights and lodging
Reserve major honeymoon travel now for better availability and pricing, especially for international trips.
Pack honeymoon essentials
Pack passports, travel documents, chargers, outfits, and medication so you are not scrambling post-wedding.
Legal
5 tasks
Marriage license and paperwork.
Research marriage license requirements
Check application windows, identification requirements, fees, witnesses, and expiration rules for your ceremony location.
Apply for your marriage license
File the paperwork inside the valid application window so the license remains usable on the wedding day.
Verify your marriage license is ready
Check that the license, witness requirements, and officiant instructions are all ready before the ceremony day.
File or confirm your signed marriage license
Make sure the signed paperwork is returned and processed correctly so you can request certified copies later.
Start any name change process
If you are changing a name, gather certified copies and start with the highest-priority institutions first.
Ceremony
8 tasks
Officiant, vows, rehearsal, and order of events.
Select your officiant
Confirm the officiant is legally able to marry you in your location and aligned with the ceremony tone you want.
Start writing your vows or ceremony notes
Begin a rough draft now so the final version feels thoughtful instead of rushed.
Finalize the ceremony outline
Confirm readings, vows, processional order, and microphone needs so the officiant and music team have one source of truth.
Hold your rehearsal and rehearsal dinner
Walk the processional, cueing, vows, and ceremony staging so the wedding day feels intuitive.
Deliver the marriage license to the officiant
Make sure the officiant and witnesses know exactly when and where the license will be signed.
Reception
8 tasks
Decor, floor plans, and guest experience.
Design your overall reception experience
Map the feel of cocktail hour, dinner, speeches, dancing, lounge areas, and any special installations or interactive moments.
Draft your rental and layout plan
Sketch table counts, bar placement, dance floor size, stage needs, and lounge zones to expose spacing issues early.
Choose rentals, linens, and tabletop details
Approve fabrics, napkin colors, flatware, glassware, and chargers while they are still available from your rental partner.
Build your reception run of show
Document grand entrance timing, dinner service, speeches, dances, cake cutting, and any special activities in order.
Confirm final catering headcount
Submit your guaranteed guest count, dietary notes, kids meals, and vendor meal counts by the deadline.
Registry
5 tasks
Registry, gifts, and thank-you tracking.
Discuss your registry strategy
Decide whether you want gifts, cash funds, honeymoon funds, or charitable giving so your website copy stays clear.
Build your wedding registry
Set up registry categories and price ranges that feel useful for different budgets and guest preferences.
Review registry shipping settings
Confirm addresses, delivery holds, and thank-you tracking so gifts do not create unnecessary confusion.
Track gifts and who sent them
Keep a clean gift log so every thank-you note is personal and accurate.
Send thank-you notes
Aim to send thoughtful notes within a few months while gift details and guest memories still feel fresh.
Vendors
9 tasks
Shortlists, contracts, confirmations, and contacts.
Hire a planner or coordinator
Decide whether you need full-service planning, partial planning, or month-of coordination based on your bandwidth and event complexity.
Shortlist essential vendors
Create a shortlist for catering, floral, entertainment, rentals, beauty, and transportation so outreach can happen quickly.
Book rentals and specialty decor
Lock in high-demand rental pieces such as tables, chairs, bars, lounge seating, lighting, or specialty linens.
Check every vendor contract for gaps
Review arrival times, overtime rules, meal clauses, weather plans, and cancellation language while changes are still easy to make.
Confirm backup weather plans
Review what changes if the weather shifts and how vendors, rentals, layout, and guest communication will adapt.
Content
7 tasks
Announcements, website, and social sharing.
Create your wedding planning dashboard
Choose the checklist, budget, and guest tracking tools you will use so information stays centralized from day one.
Reserve your website domain
Claim a clean wedding website URL early, especially if you want a custom site with travel information and registry links.
Launch your wedding website
Publish the basics including your date, city, story, travel notes, and registry plan even if some details are still pending.
Add travel details to your website
Publish hotel options, airport guidance, local transport, and local recommendations so guests can plan confidently.
Publish the final weekend schedule online
Update your website with welcome event timing, ceremony start, address details, and transport instructions.
Other
3 tasks
Everything else that keeps the day moving.
Pack your emergency kit
Include fashion tape, stain remover, safety pins, pain relief, snacks, water, tissues, and extra beauty staples.
Eat breakfast and stay hydrated
Make food and water a real task, not a nice idea, because a long day gets much harder without it.
Collect gifts, cards, and personal items
Assign a secure end-of-night handoff plan for gifts, decor, attire, and overnight bags.